when you finally put your doubts aside and follow my easy instructions, you will…


…and make it damn hard for your ex to forget you.

{ —if wanted— }

Breakup Dojo

I‘m sorry your ex broke up with you. You’re clearly in a lot of pain and you wouldn’t be here if you weren’t.

You know…


Just getting through the day is enough.

And if you’re having a particularly bad day?

Your top goal is to get through the day. Nothing more. And that’s OK.

Besides. I assure you… nobody is ever completely sorted anyway.

We are all in need of “restoration” in one way or another.

Of course —

Sometimes, that works best with assistance of some kind.

Will you let me help you?

Let’s keep things simple.

You’ve been dumped. You have endless questions.

And while the world appears to have moved on…

You can’t.

Because your life has been turned upside down, and you are drowning in overwhelm.

So much so?

The only thing that makes sense is to get your ex back (so you fill whole again.)

It would help, yes?


Saving your relationship starts with access to the right information

And so here we are.

The solution…


No time for dilly-dally. Every day you don’t do the right thing, you’re doing the wrong.

The Breakup Dojo is a growing collection of lessons and tips to help you take control of your breakup and make it hard for your ex to move on and forget you.

This is the best program I’ve signed up for (out of five…)

Inside, you’ll have complete digital access to the same information my clients use to win over their ex’s 👀


This is not about winning an argument or convincing your ex they should love you again.

(If you are trying to do that, you are hurting your chances.)

Most people make it easier for their partner to double down on their decision to leave or stay away.

How? By following self-destructive, NATURAL “strategies” that rarely work (like telling their ex how they’ve changed, or by using reason or logic, or increasing their contact etc.)


But —

If you agree to follow a few unconventional instructions?

You will make it harder for your ex to stick to their guns and stay your ex.

Even if you have poor relationships skills, just one of the lessons inside this membership program can produce better results than a professional therapist can achieve…

Imagine knowing exactly what to do…

Breakup Dojo swaps your guesswork for proven ways to:

  • Stop and reverse your breakup
  • Reboot your self-esteem…
  • And make up with your ex


My program maximises your odds with ALL of the following:

  1. Stopping a breakup 👍
  2. Stopping a divorce 👍
  3. Getting your ex back 🙌
  4. Dissolve relationship disputes 👍
  5. Repairing damaged relations 👍

Regardless if you’re a man or woman.

Psst: 👉 Breakup Dojo is for men and women, young and old. The principles inside operate on the underlying biology of humans, so you can be sure they benefit you regardless of how you define your relationship.

Are you ready to outwit your ex’s negative feelings and win them back?

Inside I’ll show you how to:

  • Outwit your ex’s negative feelings and…
  • Put yourself in the strongest position to win them back

You will learn how to counter your vexed ex who expects to be unimpressed by the usual attempts to change their mind.

No kidding —

This Gives You The Best Chance to Get Your Ex Back

  • Even if you’ve made every wrong move in the book
  • Even if your ex is seething with anger, blanking you, or spending “quality time” with another man or woman 👀

Here’s just some of what you’ll find inside:

  • Learn three very unusual lessons which put you in a far stronger position to get your ex back (It will take you only 10 minutes to absorb these remarkable lessons, yet the advantage you gain will stay with you a lifetime — I’m serious);
  • Discover the “LOP” filter: This makes it EASY to know what to say or do (Are you unsure what to say to your ex? Are you worried if the action you’re thinking of taking will make matters worse? Not any more. If it passes the “LOP test,” you will know you can proceed);
  • How to instantly close-the-gap with your ex —or indeed ANY one else— whether you like it or not (Learn how to “take the wind from their sails” on anyone you use this on… it’s bizarrely effective)


  • Find out how long to give your ex before contacting them using my “SUMO Calculator” (Why guess? This tells you how long to go “no contact” for);
  • Find out what to do when your ex dates other people (My “how to win by cheerfully losing” tip gives you an unfair advantage over the “newcomer”);
  • How to avoid the very common and ugly mistake that makes your ex very SUSPICIOUS about your motives (Do this and you jeopardize your chances);
  • Why you must not take another step until AFTER you’ve read my “do’s and don’ts for handling your ex” (This is a delicate time. Read these “damage limitation” warnings so you won’t make avoidable mistakes with your ex)


  • If you did something wrong, follow my APOLOGY METHOD so you know WHAT to say and WHEN to say it (Almost everyone gets their apology wrong. Worse, most deliver it at the WRONG TIME rendering it useless);
  • On FaceBook? You must tread carefully with your social networking. Follow my instructions! (I have a nifty tip for you here with super simple instructions);
  • Find out how and why to GET YOURSELF BACK before you even pick up the phone to your ex (Hardly anyone talks about this, yet it is the defining moment in YOUR turnaround.. it’s how you turn a setback into triumph);
  • What you MUST do if you ever “cross paths” with your ex before you’re ready to (Most people handle such chance encounters poorly. It’s the same when their ex calls them on the phone! But not you if you do this..);
  • 14 common errors you really don’t want to make (Find out what they are before it’s too late)

Or how about…

  • How to know when you’re ready to reconnect with your ex (Mess this up and you’ll reset your progress. Get it right and everything becomes much simpler);
  • Find out exactly how to reconnect with your ex the SMART way (Use “Emotional Temperature Cues” like I tell you, and you won’t piss off your ex..);
  • LEVEL UP: You lost power when you got the elbow. Let’s get it back (Find out how you level the playing field);
  • How to handle your ex’s friends & family the smart way (When you bump into your ex’s brother, friend, mum, whoever.. what do you do? What if they ask you questions, what do you say? Find out!);
  • How to deal with your ex when you live or work together (I got specific advice for you if you live or work with your ex. This is a delicate subject (!) so don’t overlook this part, OK?);

What else?…

  • For men dealing with divorce or a wife who is pulling away (a recent addition to the members area where I unload a stream-of-tips to help men fight for their wife);
  • For women dealing with divorce… yes, the opposite of the above ~~coming soon!~~ if you join before it is ready, email me and I will express-delivery this update 👀
  • What to do if your ex cheated on you {super important!} (I have several thousand words on this topic alone…)
  • And there is plenty more…

The core material inside the Breakup Dojo covers much more than I’ve shared here, so expect a few surprises.


“WAIT: What if I join and I fail to win my ex back?”

What you are really asking is, “why try?”

The answer is simple:

You should TRY because you will get over failure faster than regret. Literally. Failure is a feeling you can get over. Regret… not so much.

Whether you join and follow my instructions or take a different route, the most important thing is TRYING and giving it your all. That way, if you fail, you will at least have no regrets about not giving it your best.

Find out how to show your ex you are the right one for them

Let’s go deeper on what you’ll find inside the Breakup Dojo so you can make a more informed decision today.

Broadly speaking, you’re going to learn:

  • How to handle your ex the SMART way (so they’ll stop wanting to run a mile from you);
  • The amazing way to handle yourself (and do it so well that those around you will want to know your secret);
  • How to reconnect with your ex the right way (the way that stops you looking weak and feeling powerless… the way that makes it possible to get back together again);
  • How to be happy no matter what (You’ll be care-free and ready for whatever happens next in life, regardless of what that is —a hugely magnetic quality by the way…)

That’s the highlights. Of course there’s more, and it’s…

Everything you need to know, under one roof

This is the only place where I frequently share my latest teachings (and not JUST about saving your relationship.)

This is where you’ll find my most effective “do’s and don’ts” for handling yourself, the breakup, and your ex… and it’s all waiting for you. So when you’re ready to begin, you can.

And yes,

While I will give you my specific instructions on how to reconnect with your ex the SMART way (so you maximise your chances of saving the relationship…)

You will also get my special instructions on what to DO in the meantime

(So you are NOT the same person your ex broke up with —do you think your ex wants to be with the SAME person they broke up with?…)

Michael I would just love to thank you for all your expert help and advice…. I have followed your suggestion to tee… And found that my ex is more in love with me now than she has ever been and I thank you very kindly from the bottom of my heart

James, Subscriber

What’s the biggest obstacle facing you right now?

If I was stood in front of you right now, what would you ask me?

See, inside the Breakup Dojo, your question is probably already answered. As are the follow-up questions you’ll no doubt have.

The biggest obstacle you face? That too.

But if it’s not? Ask me. Write to me and ask. And I will then personally address your concerns and put the answer in the members area.

I don’t know if the Breakup Dojo will contain everything you need to know. But if it doesn’t, just ask and I will address it personally.

This is one reason the members area is growing in content…

“What if I make the wrong move, and lose my ex forever?”

It’s true. If you make the wrong move, you could lose your ex forever. However, if you will follow my instructions, you can greatly increase your chances of saving your relationship:

  • You’ll know what the wrong moves are (so you won’t make them);
  • You’ll make progress instead of worrying if what you’re about to say or do will push your ex further away (you can just get on with it and leave the guesswork behind);
  • Most people I’ve helped have already made “wrong moves” but with my guidance they turned things around —if you can read and follow my words then the same can be true for you (it’s almost never too late.)


The Breakup Dojo is a comprehensive resource. I cover a lot of angles. And this goes way beyond “getting your ex back…”

For years I’ve helped clients return their life back to normal after finding themselves suddenly-single. There’s always more to this process than “just” dealing with “the ex.”


When it comes to exes, I’m overflowing with knowledge.

I’ve dealt with a lot of situations over the past dozen years…

Including —

  • Clients who had to fight off “newcomers” who had moved in on their ex. (If your ex is already in another relationship, are you confident about what to do?)
  • Clients who had to fight the deep seated resentment that lived inside their ex —which they didn’t even know was there until following my advice.

I’m the guy who helps you go from a “no” to a “maybe…”

You can’t go from a no to a yes without a maybe in between.

I will help you get that maybe.

I’ve done it countless times before…

If you are trying to go from a hard “no” to a solid “yes” then you are doing this wrong!

Don’t get bitter. Get better!

One way or another, your “job” is to get better.

And this doesn’t have to be hard.

You just need to click or tap and follow along with my words. Then DO what I’ve said. And if you’re still stuck, throw me an email. And while I can’t be your personal coach (this is not coaching, after all…) I will take what you are stuck on, and add in “how to get unstuck” instructions inside the members area.

And that’s the Breakup Dojo experience.

If you can follow my directions the likelihood your ex will forget about you and move on… shrinks considerably.

Just wanted to say a huge thank you for getting me through 4 very harrowing months…. Luckily, mine worked out in the end, but you got me through some very rough times. Keep up the brilliant work you do, you definately saved me. With best wishes

J, Subscriber

Don’t talk about it. Be about it.

It’s your decision.

I’m not here to twist your arm. There’s no video here selling you on wild promises. I’m not about that.

Some people like to figure things out for themselves and maybe you want to try and do just that.

But let’s be frank…

You’re not reading these words because you want to self-experiment on your love life.

If I thought you’d be better off figuring things out for yourself we wouldn’t be having this conversation.

So, we agree that outside help and direction can make a big difference to your life. So let’s do this.

Your destiny is created by your daily decisions

The Breakup Dojo is a one-time payment deal for lifetime access. There are no monthly bills to think about. No extras to add-on.

The entire thing lives entirely online —right in your web browser— allowing you to access the same know-how and direction that has helped my personal clients feel sane again —and yes, get back with their ex.

And yes, all updates / extras / add-ons will be yours for no additional cost.

Heads up: Breakup Dojo has two membership levels…

You have two options when you join.

—Regular or Premium—

Regular is marginally less-expensive. It gets you everything described above. It’s fantastic. But premium is better..

Premium, in addition to everything the “regular” members get, also gets you access to UNFAZED — which is an entire course in itself, delivered by email to your inbox over a 25+ day period.

Suffice to say: UNFAZED is a $197 product I have sold in the past, and it got rave reviews.. so be excited.

The UNFAZED daily email course?

Where do I start 🤔

First, the UNFAZED email course is ONLY available to Breakup Dojo members. There is no other way to get it.


Look. You WANT this. Because I swear, you’d be annoyed to miss it. Which will become clear after you see it (and yes, that’s my biased opinion, of course.)

Let’s put it another way —

UNFAZED is a transformative opportunity for you. One which is an entire course in itself. Delivered through DAILY EMAILS direct to your inbox.

This email series is designed to gradually shift your old, possibly flawed paradigm for a brand new perspective on life.

Tip: Your ex does NOT want to be with the SAME person they broke up with, so use UNFAZED to ensure that doesn’t happen.


UNFAZED was originally a course I sold for $197-00. And while it was aimed at a different problem (a close relative of “the break up,”) it only required a tweak to perfectly match it to the heartache of a breakup.

This is why I can offer it for a low price to Breakup Dojo members. The hard work has already been done on this course.

Again… the version you get here is not a reduced version. It’s the full deal, edited to compliment your Breakup Dojo membership.

This unusual (in a good way) email course is designed to “unfaze-ify” you. That is, to shift you little-by-little into a “I’m not bothered” imperturbable human being. A hugely magnetic quality by the way (hint hint.)

Less “I want, I WANT, I WANT!” and more “I prefer, but I will be OK whatever happens…”

Even if you only shift A LITTLE in that direction, the payoff is IMMENSE.

UNFAZED has some big lessons within it. And it’s going to help you be a better, calmer, “got your shit together” person WHATEVER the outcome of what happens next in your life.

Fact is…

Those who suffer the most are also those who end up having the most to offer others. True growth is born from adversity. That’s just how it is. But it is not automatic. It must be nurtured. It has to be deliberately sought…

UNFAZED is 20,000+ words delivered over a 25-30 day period in your inbox. And it’s gold.

Bottom-line: UNFAZED makes the Breakup Dojo astonishing value.

“What should I do now?”

I’ve yet to tell you that there are SIX modules inside the Breakup Dojo. But we’ll get to that in a bit…

What I want you to do now is start module 1, frankly. As in today. Right now. Because that’s where we cover the common do’s and don’ts for what you must do and NOT do starting immediately. If these are ignored you risk making unnecessary mistakes that only worsen your chances.

Once that’s begun, you’re in the SAFE zone.


You can access the Breakup Dojo immediately.

Here’s what to do next:

  • Click on one of the options below;
  • Then you can pay safely with PayPal, Stripe (which accepts all standard debit and credit cards) or Apple Pay;
  • After payment, you’ll be taken to a special page where you can create your account. Simple!
Breakup Dojo
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Your purchase includes:

  • Access to the Breakup Dojo membership program (packed with ideas and tips to restore your sanity and win back your ex.)
  • Free lifetime membership — your one-time purchase gets you access to every update and improvement made for no additional fee.

NOTE: Selecting the Premium option adds the following bonuses:

  • The “Just Friends” Antidote → A special add-on: Grab this so you avoid the friend zone (and more…)
  • The UNFAZED Program → A rare course that increases your power…

This is definitely the best program I’ve signed up for (out of five…)

Breakup Dojo Member

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During checkout, you can pay via PayPal if you prefer. Or, you can pay using your regular debit or credit card (thanks to Stripe)…

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Do not buy unless you’re determined to win them back

The Breakup Dojo is for the bold.

There are no refunds & all sales are final.

Yes. Don’t buy on “impulse.”

Think carefully before you join.

If you need a money-back guarantee simply don’t buy it.

Your degree of commitment greatly affects the results you will get. This is why there are no refunds. You are either 100% in, or 100% out.

If you want a guarantee, buy a toaster

Clint Eastwood

Hey, let me tell you about…

The six modules of Breakup Dojo…

Six sections contain all the info you need:

Briefly —

Module #1 = Everything you need to know immediately —this is your first steps (aka damage limitation) for handling your ex the SMART way. Everything builds from here.

Module #2 = Get your ex SELF back. Feel lost, confused, empty? It’s time to find yourself. Understand people. And more.

Module #3 = Becoming the best you. Develop the best you that you or anyone else has ever witnessed. Very important. This isn’t about putting on a mask. It’s about being MORE yourself than ever before.

Module #4 = How to reconnect with your ex like a cool person (half-kidding… means I’m half NOT kidding…) —here’s an intelligent method for initiating and building contact with your ex (you’ll love this.)

Module #5 = All of my personal notes get added here. This is where the “extras” goes, if you will. The psychology and advanced stuff that build upon the basics (I don’t want people ignoring the basics just because this module is where all the “cool” things live.)

Module —X— = SPECIAL potent information all members are asked to read ASAP upon joining (this is a new addition to the Breakup Dojo, and… it’s too much to reveal right now (…)

Out of control?

What you do, say, or don’t do (or say) matters. If you’re confused you need direction. Breakup Dojo is your map.

Stay confused and you will make unnecessary mistakes that push your ex further away.

Stay confused and you’ll prolong your suffering far longer than it needs to be.

Get clear direction and you’ll feel the weight shift from your shoulders as you move forward with reassuring confidence, instead of backwards weighed down with doubt and despair.

Be careful, you matter

The misery of the breakup weighs heavy. If you’re not careful your sense of value and purpose are in danger of flatlining. Maybe it has already? Breakup Dojo shows you how to bounce back.

Many people have a problem with self-esteem when they’re having a GOOD day. Doesn’t take a genius to know what happens when the real shit hits the fan.

You may not see the effects as much as your friends, family, and EX do and you can easily reach a point where you don’t care.

Just know that you don’t have to reach rock bottom. Nor stay there.

Inside the Breakup Dojo you’ll see what must be done.

You’ll turn setback into triumph.

Those who suffer the most offer the most and you’ll see just why that is.

What kind of tomorrow do you want?

Q: How will you feel tomorrow morning?

Maybe you’ll feel like you could sleep a thousand nights and still awake tired of this mess. Still confused about who you are now that the relationship ended.


Because it doesn’t have to be that way.

As a valued member I will show you how to redefine who you are and put YOU back in control of your life.

Then tomorrow morning when you awake you’ll feel that little bit better..

But not because the world or your situation changed (although it might)…


But because you changed. Just a little. And that’s enough to take the edge off. And you can breathe a little easier.

And you just build from there…

So maybe tomorrow morning won’t be so bad after all.

Why work alone?

I’m sure your friends and family mean well. But often they’re too biased and too close to the situation to be truly helpful to you.

The alternative is block them out and figure all this stuff out alone. But that sucks, too. Plus… do you really think you are in the best position—mentally and emotionally—to be doing that?

It’s hard to solve matters of the heart when it’s your heart that is hurting.

Outside help that isn’t biased nor too close to your situation can be invaluable.


If you want help, join up. Today. And we’ll pick up the pieces. You can dust yourself off.. and I’ll tell you how to get yourself back

And THEN?…

Intelligently save your relationship —if that’s what you want.


Everything you need to stop or reverse your breakup

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“Just a quick to say that in a sea of get back with your ex courses it’s nice to see a course that is ethical and doesn’t treat their ex like a pawn in some game. A course that offers a dignified and conscientious collection of strategies as well as daily emails that are often equal to or even better than the content on your site.

I haven’t taken you up on your offer to email you questions because between your course and the daily emails you seem to have all the bases covered but I just wanted to say good on you for doing the right thing by the couple rather than the right thing for the one who was dumped!

PS I’m a coach and also write courses as well as book which is due out soon so some friendly advice, you need to charge more for your content”

Umech Patel

I wanted to write you back and tell you that your “get your ex back” program is the only program that I will not ask for a refund back, but all the other programs I have bought did not click with me. I like your writing style better than anyone else’s and women that write “get your ex back” programs are too sappy for me. I needed a program from a man’s perspective, and a lot of men have programs that I have read but I requested a refund from them because I kept going back to your program. Your writing style clicked with me


For the serious only

Do you know what a relationship coach charges for ONE consultation? Even beginner coaches charge more for one call than the price of admission here.

But because the information here is not spoon-fed to you, it’s not going to cost you as much.

So instead, it’s going to cost you just enough to help you succeed..

Let me tell you:

Want to know an open secret?

When you pay a sizeable amount of money for information, at the very same time you also make a “contract” with yourself.

This “contract” is missing when you get information for free or near as.

What kind of contract?

It’s like this..

After you pay the money, deep inside you’ll hopefully hear this voice:

“Listen, me… I just put some skin in the game by paying up this money — so I better go through this information; forwards, backwards, AND sideways.. and do it all again x3. And I sure as hell will implement what I learn because I’ve commitment myself by taking this action today.”

That’s the “contract” I’m talking about.

The more money you put on the table, the more serious your game will be.

Of course,

I won’t force you… it’s your money, you do what you think is best.

The Breakup Dojo is serious business.

If that’s good for you?

I’ll see you on the “other side”…

— Michael Fulmer

Michael, I have completed the course. What a gift you have given me (and anyone who participates). I don’t know how, why, or where you received this enlightenment … I am just very grateful for it

Ron in New York City

Two things about your purchase:

  1. You’ll get everything described so far, and MUCH more besides (there are unadvertised extras a-plenty);
  2. This is a one-time purchase (not a recurring subscription)
Breakup Dojo
lifetime access
SUMO Calculator
special course (worth $197)
Just Friends Antidote
special report (worth $27)

Pay securely: PayPal, Stripe, Apple Pay (all usual debit/credit cards)

New: Pay in interest-free instalments


I am blown away at the amount of knowledge and the caring that has gone into everything and can’t recommend it enough. Knowing what I know now, I would pay $1098 for the program because of where it has gotten me in my life. I can say that I am truly proud of the person that I am becoming because its the person that I needed to be if I ever want to be happy. I can’t thank you enough for everything you have done. You have turned one of the saddest and most hurtful times into something positive and I am ever grateful

Douglas Barnes, The Plains, VA



If you’re not sure this is for you then maybe I’ve not explained this well enough, or maybe you think your situation warrants a different approach?

If so, first go check the FAQ as I cover a few extra things there.

But consider this: While some believe their situation is too unique for any course or program to be effective… my experience is different. Why? Because while the details can be and often are unique, the underlying forces are NOT. And so, a correct understanding of those forces and how to use them to your advantage is far more important than how unique the details are.

And if you’re still unsure? Just email me (michael@undoabreakup.com) and ask. If I think the Breakup Dojo won’t help you then I will tell you so. No hesitation.


Just go through checkout and get started.

Michael I would just love to thank you for all your expert help and advice. I have followed your suggestion to tee. And found that my ex is more in love with me now than she has ever been and I thank you very kindly from the bottom of my heartJames