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You already know who I am.

My emails directed you here, so let’s not waste time with too much “blah blah” when your ex is now single or already dating.

To cut to the chase?

I’ve spent the last thirteen years helping couples reconcile and reunite.

And I’m happy to share all.

Right now.

With you.

So long as you don’t mind:

  • Reading (because this isn’t a video course) or
  • Paying (because this isn’t free…)

Then we’re good.

And you can…

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The Breakup Dojo is where I share what works.

Inside you’ll find proven ideas that worked for my coaching clients.

Ideas pulled from a dozen+ years of working in just about every situation you can imagine.

Rekindled Love Painting Inspired by Pygmalion and Galatea

This is the best program I’ve signed up for (out of five…)

I don’t know what you’re expecting here…

But I’ll tell you this much:

  • This isn’t about winning arguments or convincing your ex they were wrong
  • Or giving reassurances (“I’ve changed, I won’t do that anymore, I won’t let you down again…”)
  • Or telling them how much you love them


Those are self-destructive and weaken your position.

I’m serious.

This isn’t about love or showing love.

Especially when your ex is expecting you to say whatever you can to win them over.

Instead, you need to go another way.

And with my guidance, you’ll do just that.

Even if you have poor relationships skills —just ONE of the lessons inside can produce better results than a professional therapist can achieve. i should know, i’ve done the same training…

Just Imagine Having All the Answers…

Breakup Dojo swaps your guesswork for proven ways to:

  • Stop and Undo a Breakup;
  • Defeat Negativity;
  • Rekindle the Love.


My advice maximises your odds with ALL of the following:

  1. Stopping a Breakup 👍
  2. Preventing Divorce 👍
  3. Winning Your Ex Back 🙌
  4. Solving Disputes 👍
  5. Fix a Broke Relationship 👍

Regardless if you’re a man or woman.

Note: 👉 Breakup Dojo is for men and women, young and old. The principles inside operate on the underlying biology of humans so you can be sure they benefit you regardless of how you define your relationship.

Are You Ready to Outwit Your Ex’s Negative Feelings and Win Them Back?

Inside I’ll show you how to:

  • Overcome your ex’s negative feelings and…
  • Put yourself in the strongest position to win them back

You will learn how to counter a vexed ex who expects to be unimpressed by the usual attempts to change their mind.

No kidding —

This Gives You the Best Chance to Get Your Ex Back

  • Even if you’ve made every wrong move in the book
  • Even if your ex is seething with anger, blanking you, or spending “quality time” with another man or woman 👀

Here’s Just Some of What You’ll Find Inside:

  • Three Unusual Lessons: Gain a lifetime advantage in just 10 minutes with these powerful techniques that put you in a stronger position to win back your ex;
  • The “LOP” Filter: Never worry about what to say to your ex or do again. If it passes the “LOP” test, you’ll know you can proceed with confidence;
  • Close the Gap: How to instantly close-the-gap with your ex —or indeed anyone else— whether you like it or not (you’ll learn how to “take the wind from their sails” on anyone you use this on… it’s bizarrely effective)


  • The “SUMO Calculator”: Determine the ideal “no contact” period before reaching out to your ex (why guess? This tool tells you!)
  • Find out what to do when your ex dates other people (My “how to win by cheerfully losing” tip gives you an unfair advantage over the “newcomer”);
  • How to avoid the common and ugly mistake that makes your ex SUSPICIOUS about your motives (Do this and you jeopardise your chances);
  • Why you must not take another step until AFTER you’ve read my “do’s and don’ts for handling your ex” (This is a delicate time. Read these “damage limitation” warnings so you won’t make avoidable mistakes with your ex.)


  • If you did something wrong, follow my APOLOGY METHOD so you know WHAT to say and WHEN to say it (Almost everyone gets their apology wrong. Worse, most deliver it at the WRONG TIME rendering it useless);
  • On FaceBook? You must tread carefully with your social networking. Follow my instructions! (I have a nifty tip for you here with super simple instructions);
  • Find out how and why to GET YOURSELF BACK before you even pick up the phone to your ex (Hardly anyone talks about this, yet it is the defining moment in YOUR turnaround.. it’s how you turn a setback into triumph);
  • What you MUST do if you ever “cross paths” with your ex before you’re ready to (Most people handle such chance encounters poorly. It’s the same when their ex calls them on the phone! But not you if you do this..);
  • 14 common errors you really don’t want to make (Find out what they are before it’s too late)

Or how about…

  • How to know when you’re ready to reconnect with your ex (Mess this up and you’ll reset your progress. Get it right and everything becomes much simpler);
  • Find out exactly how to reconnect with your ex the SMART way (Use “Emotional Temperature Cues” like I tell you, and you won’t piss off your ex..);
  • LEVEL UP: You lost power when you got the elbow. Let’s get it back (Find out how you level the playing field);
  • How to handle your ex’s friends & family the smart way (When you bump into your ex’s brother, friend, mum, whoever.. what do you do? What if they ask you questions, what do you say? Find out!);
  • How to deal with your ex when you live or work together (I got specific advice for you if you live or work with your ex. This is a delicate subject (!) so don’t overlook this part, OK?);

What else?…

  • For Men Facing Divorce: Access a range of tips to help you fight for your wife and marriage;
  • For Women Facing Divorce: Get the opposite perspective with advice tailored to your unique situation (email for express delivery if not yet available 👀);
  • Handling Infidelity: What to do if your ex cheated on you {super important!} (I have several thousand words on this topic alone…)
  • And there is plenty more…

The core material inside the Breakup Dojo covers much more than I’ve shared here, so expect a few surprises.

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“WAIT: What If I Join and I Fail to Win My Ex Back?”

What you’re really asking is, “why try?”

The answer is simple:

You must try because overcoming failure is easier than living with regret.

By giving it your all, you can move forward without wondering “what if?”

Whether you join and follow my instructions ~or~ take a different route, the most important thing is that you try and give it your best.

That way, if you fail, you at least have no regrets about not giving it your best.

Everything You Need to Know, Under One Roof

This is the only place where I frequently share my latest teachings (and not JUST about saving your relationship.)

This is where you’ll find my most effective “do’s and don’ts” for handling yourself, the breakup, and your ex… and it’s all waiting for you. So when you’re ready to begin, you can.

And yes,

While I will give you my specific instructions on how to reconnect with your ex the SMART way (so you maximise your chances of saving the relationship…)

You will also get my special instructions on what to DO in the meantime

(So you are NOT the same person your ex broke up with —do you think your ex wants to be with the SAME person they broke up with?…)

Michael I would just love to thank you for all your expert help and advice…. I have followed your suggestion to tee… And found that my ex is more in love with me now than she has ever been and I thank you very kindly from the bottom of my heart

James, Subscriber

What’s the Biggest Obstacle Facing You Right Now?

If I was stood in front of you right now, what would you ask me?

See, inside the Breakup Dojo, your question is probably already answered. As are the follow-up questions you’ll no doubt have.

The biggest obstacle you face? That too.

But if it’s not? Ask me. Write to me and ask. And I will then personally address your concerns and put the answer inside.

I don’t know if the Breakup Dojo will contain everything you need to know. But if it doesn’t, just ask and I will address it personally.

“What if I Make the Wrong Move, and Lose My Ex Forever?”

It’s true. If you make the wrong move, you could lose your ex forever. However, if you will follow my instructions, you can greatly increase your chances of saving your relationship:

  • You’ll know what the wrong moves are (so you won’t make them);
  • You’ll make progress instead of worrying if what you’re about to say or do will push your ex further away (you can just get on with it and leave the guesswork behind);
  • Most people I’ve helped have already made “wrong moves” but with my guidance they turned things around —if you can read and follow my words then the same can be true for you (it’s almost never too late.)


The Breakup Dojo is a comprehensive resource. I cover a lot of angles. And this goes way beyond “getting your ex back…”

For years I’ve helped clients return their life back to normal after finding themselves suddenly-single. There’s always more to this process than “just” dealing with “the ex.”


When it comes to exes, I’m overflowing with knowledge.

I’ve dealt with a lot of situations over the past dozen years…

Including —

  • Clients who had to fight off “newcomers” who had moved in on their ex. (If your ex is already in another relationship, are you confident about what to do?)
  • Clients who had to fight the deep seated resentment that lived inside their ex —which they didn’t even know was there until following my advice.

I’m the Guy Who Helps You Go From a “No” to a “Maybe…”

You can’t go from a no to a yes without a maybe in between.

I will help you get that maybe.

I’ve done it countless times before…

If you are trying to go from a hard “no” to a solid “yes” then you are doing this wrong!

Don’t Get Bitter, Get Better!

One way or another, your “job” is to get better.

And this doesn’t have to be hard.

You just need to click or tap and follow along with my words. Then DO what I’ve said. And if you’re still stuck, throw me an email. And while I can’t be your personal coach (this is not coaching, after all…) I will take what you are stuck on, and add in “how to get unstuck” instructions to the library.

And that’s the Breakup Dojo experience.

If you can follow my directions the likelihood your ex will forget about you and move on… shrinks considerably.

Just wanted to say a huge thank you for getting me through 4 very harrowing months…. Luckily, mine worked out in the end, but you got me through some very rough times. Keep up the brilliant work you do, you definately saved me. With best wishes

J, Subscriber

Don’t Talk About It —Be About It

It’s your decision.

I’m not here to twist your arm. There’s no video here selling you on wild promises. I’m not about that.

Some people like to figure things out for themselves and maybe you want to try and do just that.

But let’s be frank…

You’re not reading these words because you want to self-experiment on your love life.

If I thought you’d be better off figuring things out for yourself we wouldn’t be having this conversation.

So, we agree that outside help and direction can make a big difference to your life. So let’s do this.

Important: There Are Two Levels of Access 👀

When you join the Breakup Dojo, you must choose either:

1. Regular Access 🔥


2. Premium Access 🔥🔥🔥

Both cover:

  • 👍 Techniques to stop a breakup or prevent a divorce
  • 🙌 The art of winning your ex back
  • 👍 Strategies to solve disputes and fix a broken relationship

BUT Premium comes with two three valuable additions:

  1. “Just Friends” Antidote → a special guide sold elsewhere for $27 (shows you how to deal with the friendzone 👀)
  2. The UNFAZED Program → exclusive email series previously sold for $197 (shows you how to increase your power 🔥)
  3. A single Email Coaching Shot → one personal email reply from me, worth $30 (so you get specific advice for your situation ✍️)

but let’s discuss #2 for a second…

UNFAZED is an entire course in itself, delivered by email to your inbox over a 25+ day period.

This is not a small addition —UNFAZED is a standalone $197 course I sold in the past, which got rave reviews.. so be excited.

The UNFAZED Daily Email Course?

Designed to shift your perspective on life and relationships…

Where do I start 🤔

First, the UNFAZED email course is ONLY available to Premium Breakup Dojo members. There is no other way to get it.


Look. You WANT this. Because I swear, you’d be annoyed to miss it. Which will become clear after you see it (and yes, that’s my biased opinion, of course.)

Let’s put it another way —

UNFAZED is a transformative opportunity for you. One which is an entire course in itself. Delivered through DAILY EMAILS direct to your inbox.

This email series is designed to gradually shift your old, possibly flawed paradigm for a brand new perspective on life.

Tip: Your ex does NOT want to be with the SAME person they broke up with, so use UNFAZED to ensure that doesn’t happen.


UNFAZED was originally a course I sold for $197-00. And while it was aimed at a different problem (a close relative of “the break up,”) it only required a tweak to perfectly match it to the heartache of a breakup.

This is why I can offer it for a low price to Breakup Dojo members. The hard work has already been done on this course.

Again… the version you get here is not a reduced version. It’s the full deal, edited to compliment your Breakup Dojo experience.

This unusual (in a good way) email course is designed to “unfaze-ify” you. That is, to shift you little-by-little into a “I’m not bothered” imperturbable human being. A hugely magnetic quality by the way (hint hint.)

Less “I want, I WANT, I WANT!” and more “I prefer, but I will be OK whatever happens…”

Even if you only shift A LITTLE in that direction, the payoff is IMMENSE.

UNFAZED has some big lessons within it. And it’s going to help you be a better, calmer, “got your shit together” person WHATEVER the outcome of what happens next in your life.

Fact is…

Those who suffer the most are also those who end up having the most to offer others. True growth is born from adversity. That’s just how it is. But it is not automatic. It must be nurtured. It has to be deliberately sought…

UNFAZED is 20,000+ words delivered over a 25-30 day period in your inbox. And it’s gold.

Bottom-line: UNFAZED makes the premium edition of Breakup Dojo astonishing value.

and, until i change my mind…

premium accounts also include 👇

A Taste of 1-2-1 Email Coaching

For a trial period only, all new PREMIUM members will receive a complimentary 1-2-1 email from yours truly.

Now, you don’t have to use this, it’s OPTIONAL.

Basically, this grants you the power to email me a little about your situation and ask a question or two… one-time only, on the house.

Then, within 48 hours I will personally give you specific instructions for your unique situation. So if you require clarification on ANYTHING, you will get it.

Even better, there is no time limit attached to this offer. This “coaching shot” is there for you to use whenever you need it. So relax, and suit yourself. I insist you do what is best for you.


You can access the Breakup Dojo immediately.

The only question is do you want regular or premium access…

Option A

Regular Edition

  • immediate access to the Breakup Dojo library, packed with ideas and tips to win over a stubborn ex and restore your sanity.
  • Free lifetime access — your one-time purchase grants you access to every update and improvement made for no additional fee.

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Option B

Premium Edition

Includes everything above, PLUS:

  • The “Just Friends” Antidoteso you avoid the friendzone 👀
  • UNFAZED Program → increases your power 🔥
  • A single Email Coaching Shotso you get specific advice for your situation ✍️

Pay $99 Once
Join over 1,000 happy customers

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This is definitely the best program I’ve signed up for (out of five…)

🔐 Safe & Secure

Most debit & credit cards are accepted, including Apple Pay (if you’re hip and modern.)

During checkout, you can pay via PayPal if you prefer. Or, you can pay using your regular debit or credit card (thanks to Stripe)…

Over a thousand people have joined this program. You are in safe hands!

100% Commitment Guarantee

Do not buy unless you’re determined to win them back

The Breakup Dojo is for the bold.

There are no refunds & all sales are final.

Yes. Don’t buy on “impulse.”

Think carefully before you join.

If you need a money-back guarantee simply don’t buy it.

Your degree of commitment greatly affects the results you will get. This is why there are no refunds. You are either 100% in, or 100% out.

If you want a guarantee, buy a toaster

Clint Eastwood

Psst: If you risk more by NOT joining, then you know what to do.

Out of Control?

What you do, say, or don’t do (or say) matters. If you’re confused you need direction. Breakup Dojo is your map.

Stay confused and you will make unnecessary mistakes that push your ex further away.

Stay confused and you’ll prolong your suffering far longer than it needs to be.

Get clear direction and you’ll feel the weight shift from your shoulders as you move forward with reassuring confidence, instead of backwards weighed down with doubt and despair.

Be Careful, You Matter

The misery of the breakup weighs heavy. If you’re not careful your sense of value and purpose are in danger of flatlining. Maybe it has already? Breakup Dojo shows you how to bounce back.

Many people have a problem with self-esteem when they’re having a GOOD day. Doesn’t take a genius to know what happens when the real shit hits the fan.

You may not see the effects as much as your friends, family, and EX do and you can easily reach a point where you don’t care.

Just know that you don’t have to reach rock bottom. Nor stay there.

Inside the Breakup Dojo you’ll see what must be done.

You’ll turn setback into triumph.

Those who suffer the most offer the most and you’ll see just why that is.

What Kind of Tomorrow Do You Want?

Q: How will you feel tomorrow morning?

Maybe you’ll feel like you could sleep a thousand nights and still awake tired of this mess. Still confused about who you are now that the relationship ended.


Because it doesn’t have to be that way.

As a valued member I will show you how to redefine who you are and put YOU back in control of your life.

Then tomorrow morning when you awake you’ll feel that little bit better..

But not because the world or your situation changed (although it might)…


But because you changed. Just a little. And that’s enough to take the edge off. And you can breathe a little easier.

And you just build from there…

So maybe tomorrow morning won’t be so bad after all.

Why Work Alone?

I’m sure your friends and family mean well. But often they’re too biased and too close to the situation to be truly helpful to you.

The alternative is block them out and figure all this stuff out alone. But that sucks, too. Plus… do you really think you are in the best position—mentally and emotionally—to be doing that?

It’s hard to solve matters of the heart when it’s your heart that is hurting.

Outside help that isn’t biased nor too close to your situation can be invaluable.


If you want help, join up. Today. And we’ll pick up the pieces. You can dust yourself off.. and I’ll tell you how to get yourself back

And THEN?…

Intelligently save your relationship —if that’s what you want.

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“Just a quick to say that in a sea of get back with your ex courses it’s nice to see a course that is ethical and doesn’t treat their ex like a pawn in some game. A course that offers a dignified and conscientious collection of strategies as well as daily emails that are often equal to or even better than the content on your site.

I haven’t taken you up on your offer to email you questions because between your course and the daily emails you seem to have all the bases covered but I just wanted to say good on you for doing the right thing by the couple rather than the right thing for the one who was dumped!

PS I’m a coach and also write courses as well as book which is due out soon so some friendly advice, you need to charge more for your content”

Umech Patel

I wanted to write you back and tell you that your “get your ex back” program is the only program that I will not ask for a refund back, but all the other programs I have bought did not click with me. I like your writing style better than anyone else’s and women that write “get your ex back” programs are too sappy for me. I needed a program from a man’s perspective, and a lot of men have programs that I have read but I requested a refund from them because I kept going back to your program. Your writing style clicked with me


For the Serious Only

Do you know what a relationship coach charges for ONE consultation? Even beginner coaches charge more for one call than the price of admission here.

But because the information here is not spoon-fed to you, it’s not going to cost you as much.

So instead, it’s going to cost you just enough to help you succeed..

Let me tell you:

Want to know an open secret?

When you pay a sizeable amount of money for information, at the very same time you also make a “contract” with yourself.

This “contract” is missing when you get information for free or near as.

What kind of contract?

It’s like this..

After you pay the money, deep inside you’ll hopefully hear this voice:

“Listen, me… I just put some skin in the game by paying up this money — so I better go through this information; forwards, backwards, AND sideways.. and do it all again x3. And I sure as hell will implement what I learn because I’ve commitment myself by taking this action today.”

That’s the “contract” I’m talking about.

The more money you put on the table, the more serious your game will be.

Of course,

I won’t force you… it’s your money, you do what you think is best.

The Breakup Dojo is serious business.

If that’s good for you?

I’ll see you on the “other side”…

— Michael Fulmer

Michael, I have completed the course. What a gift you have given me (and anyone who participates). I don’t know how, why, or where you received this enlightenment … I am just very grateful for it

Ron in New York City

Two Things About Your Purchase:

  1. You’ll get everything described so far, and MUCH more besides (there are unadvertised extras a-plenty);
  2. This is a one-time purchase (not a recurring subscription)
Breakup Dojo
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SUMO Calculator
special course (worth $197)
Just Friends Antidote
special report (worth $27)
Email Coaching Shot
1-to-1 reply (worth $30)
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Pay securely: PayPal, Stripe, Apple Pay (all usual debit/credit cards)

New: Pay in interest-free instalments


I am blown away at the amount of knowledge and the caring that has gone into everything and can’t recommend it enough. Knowing what I know now, I would pay $1098 for the program because of where it has gotten me in my life. I can say that I am truly proud of the person that I am becoming because its the person that I needed to be if I ever want to be happy. I can’t thank you enough for everything you have done. You have turned one of the saddest and most hurtful times into something positive and I am ever grateful

Douglas Barnes, The Plains, VA



If you’re not sure this is for you then maybe I’ve not explained this well enough, or maybe you think your situation warrants a different approach?

If so, keep scrolling to read my “frequently asked questions” as I cover a few extra things there.

But consider this: While some believe their situation is too unique for any course or program to be effective… my experience is different. Why? Because while the details can be and often are unique, the underlying forces are NOT. And so, a correct understanding of those forces and how to use them to your advantage is far more important than how unique the details are.

And if you’re still unsure? Just email me ( and ask. If I think the Breakup Dojo won’t help you then I will tell you so. No hesitation.


Just go through checkout and get started.

Michael I would just love to thank you for all your expert help and advice. I have followed your suggestion to tee. And found that my ex is more in love with me now than she has ever been and I thank you very kindly from the bottom of my heartJames

Frequently Asked Questions

01 — My situation is unique. Will the Breakup Dojo work for me?

Most people think that their situation is so unique that no course or programme will work for them. Instead, I’ve discovered that while the details can be unique, the underlying forces are NOT, and a correct understanding of those forces and how to use them to your advantage is far more important than how unique the details are.

02 — We have children. Will this still work?

Yes, of course.

03 — My ex is seeing somebody else. Should I give up?

Absolutely not. This isn’t uncommon — your ex is having a rebound relationship. Which means they still have unfinished emotions to process. And by not properly adjusting to the end of your relationship first, your ex is walking in an emotional minefield (most rebound relationships end for good reasons.)

04 — What if I require more help, and can’t find the answer inside?

I encourage members to email me whenever they need clarification, or if they have a problem not yet covered in the Breakup Dojo.

Then, each month I sit down and go through any questions I’ve received, and where it makes sense, I will “fill in the gaps” inside this digital resource..

Your questions help make this a better experience for everyone.

05 — Will you respond to my questions?

If you have a technical problem (access issues etc) then of course.

Keep in mind that the Breakup Dojo is priced as the “DIY” option (meaning: economical) rather than priced for personal 1-on-1 advice.

06 — Can you guarantee I will get my ex back?

Of course not. Guarantees of that nature are not possible, nor ethical. And in some cases, some people are better off going their separate ways.

Breakup Dojo isn’t ONLY about “getting your ex back.” Far from it. Saving your relationship, or stopping a divorce, or break up… is ONE goal. And this is a key component of the program. However, it isn’t the ONLY goal.

Whether or not your relationship should — or CAN — be saved, is just one of several dimensions you must consider.

Whether you save your relationship, or not… you still enter the non-optional adjustment phase, and processing the hurt and getting your head straight is paramount to future happiness — irrespective of whether that’s in a relationship with your ex… or somebody else, or simply enjoying the single life.

The value of the Breakup Dojo is much broader and far-reaching than your typical “ex back” guide.

07 — What if I join and I fail to win my ex back?

What you are really asking is, “why try?”

The answer is: You will get over failure faster than regret. Literally… failure is a feeling you can get over. Regret… not so much.

Whether you join and follow my instructions, or you go another path, the most important thing is TRYING and giving it 100%. That way, if you fail, you will at least have no regrets about not giving it your best.

08 — Are there ongoing fees or anything like that I need to know about?


No. The Breakup Dojo is a one-time purchase, lifetime access deal.

You will never be added to a recurring payment agreement.

09 — If I change my mind, can I get a refund?

No. There are no refunds. You buy, you commit, we work and we make what we make of it. Don’t join until you are 100% committed.