I have actually pinpointed three secrets that produce spectacular results in almost any broken relationship.
“LOP” is just a part of it.
If you can combine all three… then it’s damn hard to get mediocre results.
The first secret is that there are specific “high yield” leverage points in your relationship
We all have these areas.
And you only need to focus on these to close the gap between you both.
Everything else will seem superfluous in comparison.
You can have crap relational skills and do better than “professional” counsellors can achieve if you know how to tap into these leverage points.
And…
The HOW is simple when using the “COWN” method.
When you apply the “COWN” method the wall between your ex and you is knocked through.
In fact, you can take 10 minutes to read and understand this… and begin closing the distance with your partner the very next time you see them.
That’s the same result or slightly better than you will get if you have private 1-2-1 coaching with a good ex back expert.
It’s easy once you hit these leverage points with the COWN method… you will never again wonder what to do once you see how beautifully effective this method is.
It’s so simple… you can start implementing this today and there is no way you will see mediocre results.
The second secret is that you are uniquely positioned for triggering the right emotional responses…
I’m sure you’ve heard this before…
“Humans make decisions based on emotions, and then justify with logic.”
Sounds good. But very few people actually act according to this truth. They don’t consider WHICH emotions to elicit, which to avoid, and HOW.
HINT: It’s not what you feel (your feelings are irrelevant)… it’s what your partner feels, experiences and perceives
Your partner simply cannot say “no” if their emotions say “yes” which just so happens to be the state you automatically influence when using the LOP principle…
The third secret is that there is a kind of “x-factor” that nobody seems to talk of. And this x-factor can only be produced when you know the right combo…
It’s a ‘Killer’ Combo…
You achieve this when you combine the power of the COWN method with the LOP principle and sprinkle something I call “HAST” on top.
HAST is best described as a mentality or attitude that you adopt.
I have found it to be very effective whether you are:
1. Wanting to stop a breakup or divorce;
2. Wanting to get back with your ex;
3. Wanting to repair damaged relations…
HAST is a simple attitude to adopt.
But when combined with COWN and LOP, you end up with a killer combo…